Airborne Learning God

Chapter 57 It's Too Difficult, I'm Really Too Difficult

This year's Spring Festival is even later. On February 2, the Uncle's Day on the second day of the Lunar New Year coincides with Valentine's Day. Early in the morning, pedestrians are in a hurry.

Yesterday, Zheng Aiqing was exhausted and irritated by the visits. Cai Wen’s co-worker’s bear is really too bear. He has almost graduated from primary school, and he still relies on small shops, but his family is still used to it. Because of Zheng Aiqing's "world champion" and "early admission", the family kept pushing the bear child to Zheng Aiqing, saying that the elder brother tutored the younger brother, and Chi Yunyun was close to Zhu.

The smile on Cai Wen's face couldn't hold back anymore. If it wasn't for Zheng Aiqing's illness and hospitalization, Cai Wen would never have brought Zheng Aiqing to this door.

Xiongzi is thin and small, but he is very strong. Several times, when Zheng Aiqing returned She Jian's message, he was dragged by Xiongzi without realizing it.

The bear boy wanted to play games on Zheng Aiqing's mobile phone, but Zheng Aiqing refused to give it to him. The bear boy puffed up his cheeks, and suddenly raised his hand and slapped him. If Zheng Aiqing hadn't dodged quickly, the slap would have slapped him on the face.

Now the hostess can no longer cover her up, but she just raised her hand and patted the bear on the shoulder symbolically, saying "Don't hit brother, it's rude".

Is this an impolite question?

But Cai Wen and Zheng Aiqing didn't say anything, they had been sitting around for more than an hour, and they found an excuse to leave.

When she went downstairs, Cai Wen frowned, and took a look at Zheng Aiqing's sleeve. Sure enough, her wrist was already red by the brat.

It is very distressing for a beauty to frown. Zheng Aiqing put down her sleeves and put her arm around Cai Wen's shoulder, "Dr. Cai, I really think you are a good parent."

"If you're still red when you get home, put on some medicinal wine." Cai Wen urged, "Just this one time, the etiquette is exhausted, and we won't come again next time."

The child I held in my hand, why did I send it to be bullied by the bear, let alone take care of it for a few days, even if that person saved his son's life!

Cai Wen thought angrily.

Zheng Aiqing's skin is tender, and her body's self-healing ability is weaker than ordinary people. When she was a child, she learned to ride a bicycle. Even if she was wearing knee pads, wrist pads, and elbow pads, she would still get some bruises. Those marks can last for a long time. It looks very scary people.

"That's why I said that Dr. Cai is a good teacher. Look, I am so good, I am not a bear at all." After speaking, Zheng Aiqing thoughtfully opened the door for Cai Wen and made a gesture of invitation.

After starting the car, Cai Wen seemed to sigh and said, "Everyone hurts. When you were young, you were obedient and obedient, and you were quieter than little girls. Now think about it, your father and I spoil you so much, and you haven't grown crooked. Also lucky."

"Think about it in another way. Even if you got into trouble when you were young, lost a few golden beans, and acted like a spoiled child, we would not be willing to punish you. Parents all over the world are actually the same."

Zheng Aiqing agrees with Cai Wen's words very much. When I was in junior high school, I made a big death and didn't drink medicine. If such a serious matter, I can still get away with it. But he is different from the bear boy. He is taking his own life to death, it seems that he is more bearish and heartless.

When I got home, many people came to visit at home, and the dean Zheng Jingzhou still had a lot of people to fawn on.

When those people saw Zheng Aiqing, their eyes lit up, and they praised Zheng Aiqing fiercely one by one.

What study is good, obedient and sensible, and tall and handsome Yunyun.

Hearing the last sentence, Cai Wen, who started to put her wrists on Zheng Aiqing after saying hello, retorted blankly, "You should apologize to my child."

The middle-aged man sitting on the side of the sofa was taken aback, "What?"

"Looks are given by your parents, and you can have them without any effort, so that's not Qingqing's advantage, but your casual words of being tall and handsome will obliterate the child's many efforts in other aspects."

"What you do will give the child a psychological hint. It seems that good looks can be praised, and appearance is as important as character ability and many other qualities, or more important. This is distorting the child's three views. So , I think it is necessary for you to apologize to my child."

The scene was very embarrassing.

The man finally apologized to Zheng Aiqing, and Zheng Aiqing smiled back with an embarrassed but polite smile.

When such an episode appeared, several people who came to visit took advantage of the fact that it was inconvenient to bother them because it was lunch time, so they made excuses and left.

Zheng Jingzhou got up to see them off, and closed the door. He leaned against the door and said lazily, "Does the visit not go well?"

The middle-aged man just now was the father of that bear child.

"Educating children is very important, especially children in their teens. I just teach them a lesson." Cai Wen took away the towel.

Zheng Aiqing's wrist was still red, Zheng Jingzhou took a closer look and asked, "Does it hurt? If it doesn't hurt, you don't need to apply ointment."

"It doesn't hurt a long time ago." Zheng Aiqing turned her wrist and said to Cai Wen, "I won't use medicinal wine anymore, the smell is too strong."

After finishing speaking, Zheng Aiqing ran back to the room in a hurry, closed the door, and confiscated all her strength. The word "Fu" pasted on the door trembled.

Outside the door, Zheng Jingzhou continued to cook, while Cai Wen rolled up her sleeves to help. The two were still chatting about the topic just now:

"...Graduating from primary school in two years, not polite, acting recklessly, as if everyone should serve him, this is the first time I see such a bear."

"Oh, that's useless. I guess the two of them didn't learn any early education knowledge before the child was born."

Early education is more and more popular, because it is related to the child's life.

Even elementary school textbooks say: Smartness and beauty are innate advantages, not capital and skills worth showing off, but hard work is not the case, it is a valuable quality that affects a lifetime.

[You look so beautiful, so good! 】

This kind of compliment is the favorite of Chinese parents, and it is also a customary compliment when Chinese people meet.

You praise a person because of his beauty, but beauty is not his credit, it depends on his parents' genetics, basically has nothing to do with him personally, but children can't tell the difference yet, adults say casually A lot of praise will make children think that this is their own ability.

And once a child thinks that natural beauty is something to be proud of, he will look down on ordinary or even ugly people, which creates a misunderstanding for the child.

Almost all early education books will put forward an argument, that is, when appreciating children, you should appreciate their hard work and politeness, not their intelligence and beauty.

Because smartness and beauty are innate advantages, not capital and skills worth showing off, but hard work is not, it is a valuable spiritual quality.

Praise the specific but not the whole, praise the hard work but not the cleverness, praise the fact but not the personality.

For example, words like "good boy" are typical exaggerations, and adults will always talk about them unintentionally.

But "good" is a very empty concept, a big hat, and a kind of pressure.

See Weizhi book.

Adler once said that the lucky person is healed by childhood all his life, but the unfortunate person is healed his childhood all his life.

What a profound sentence this is. Your casual compliment and all your laissez-faire are slowly destroying a child.

This is also one of the reasons for the origin of bear children.

In this regard, She Jian also agrees 100%. He has always kept a respectful distance from this "evolved creature" called a brat.

"So, come out and play tomorrow."

Zheng Aiqing held her chin, "Are you going to watch a movie at the cinema?"

On the other side of the video screen, She Jian heard her neck twitch, "This year's Chinese New Year, my cousin gave me a newly built gymnasium as lucky money. Tomorrow's Valentine's Day, we two old men will go to exercise, so we won't be like them." The young couple is grabbing the romance movie."

When Zheng Aiqing thought about it, it was okay, "The grades are down, what do you think?"

She Jian twitched her neck again, "History is too difficult, really too difficult."

Because there are no scores in the subjects of the examination, only grades, so ABCD is replaced by 100, 80, 60 and 0 respectively.

Well, D means failing. In the eyes of the classmates and teachers of No. [-] Middle School, failing is no different from zero.

This time, She Jian's performance ranking has improved by ten places. It is already a great miracle from a generation of scumbags who counterattacked in the crowd surrounded by top students to a grade of more than 200. Of course, this is also thanks to the blessing of the exam. The saw is much smaller.

After all, She Jian has the bug of Zheng Aiqing, and when compared to the many C's of science students, his history is still good, and he is actually a B for the first time.

In fact, when the scores and rankings reach a certain stage, it is already very difficult to improve. In the key high schools in the city, except for She Jian and the others, most of the students have been masters all the way since childhood. I have been familiar with the teacher's routine for more than ten years, how can She Jian, a "rising star" who has been a year or two, catch up.

"Study hard and make progress every day. I'll wait for you at HKUST." There was a knock on the door, and Cai Wen reminded Zheng Aiqing to have lunch through the door, "I'm going to eat first."

In another day, it was the second day of the Lunar New Year. Zheng Aiqing got up early to wash up, and found out a new set of sportswear. In front of the dressing mirror, Zheng Aiqing looked left and right, and even turned around.

Cai Wen was changing shoes at the door and getting ready to go to work. Seeing this, she smiled and said, "Qingqing looks so handsome today, are you going on a date?"

Zheng Aiqing casually handed Cai Wen a can of hot milk and a small cake, "Thank you Doctor Cai for the compliment, my son just went out with She Jian for some exercise."

Zheng Jingzhou is resting today, and the old god is eating breakfast, sipping soy milk, and waving to his wife and children, "Go early and return early, pay attention to safety on the road."

Cai Wen went downstairs with Zheng Aiqing, and then met She Jian who was leaning on the electric car and rubbing his hands and covering his ears.

She Jian said hello obediently and politely.

Cai Wen smiled and said nothing, but just stuffed the can of hot milk to She Jian, the look in her eyes made She Jian's heart skip a beat, and she always felt that there was no way to hide her thoughts.

Zheng Aiqing took out a pair of earmuffs from her schoolbag and threw them to She Jian, "Put them on."

She Jian realized that the one she wore was the same style as Zheng Aiqing's, but...

"Why is mine pink?"

Zheng Aiqing straddled the electric scooter, "Because I want to wear the blue one, the pink one is chirping, it suits you."

She Jian, who was a bitch, was speechless.

The gymnasium is brand new, with complete facilities inside. Zheng Aiqing was amazed by cousin She Jian's generosity.

She Jian is very down-to-earth, and his food and clothing are very "civilian", but he always inadvertently exposes his identity as a son of a rich family.

Basketball, football, volleyball, badminton, table tennis and even hockey.

However, Zheng Aiqing is not very good at these ball games. The two played tennis for a while, and then began to wander around in the gymnasium. After lunch, the two even took a nap in the lounge.

When I woke up again, it was around three o'clock in the afternoon, and the sound of firecrackers came from far away from time to time. This year, localities began to ban fireworks and firecrackers, but the efforts were not very strong, and many people still dared to set off fireworks. , kept jumping repeatedly on the edge of illegality.

With nothing else to do, the two rushed to watch a movie with their young lovers. When the movie ended, it was already dark outside. Seeing that there were not too many people, they went in and ordered two hot pots Eating, it's all tomato pot bottom, the soup is thick and the sweetness and sourness are just right.

After dinner, She Jian pushed Zheng Aiqing's electric car and wobbled home. I don't know when this custom of sending people home was developed.

Passing by the square by the Haihe River, "The Most Dazzling Ethnic Style" is playing loudly, and middle-aged and elderly men and women in bright red uniforms are dancing happily to the beat of the song.

She Jian and Zheng Aiqing stood far away and watched for a while.

"Don't look at me being happy every day, but I'm actually very confused and don't know what to do when I'm old."

Zheng Aiqing looked sideways, she didn't know why She Jian, who was doing well, was so sad, but she didn't wait for him to comfort her, She Jian continued:

"After all, those square dances look so difficult."

Zheng Aiqing: "...?"

[The author has something to say]: She Jian: When we are old and our hair is gray, we will hold hands and dance together in the square dance. This is the most ordinary happiness I can think of (*︶*)

Zheng Aiqing: May I ask if it is still too late to apply for the old Gong?